by Phylicia | Sep 21, 2020 | Christian Life & Theology, Sexuality
“Why would God give me these desires if He’s not going to fulfill them?” It’s a question many young men and women are asking. It’s a question I see at least once a week in my DMs, sometimes once a day. It’s a pressing concern for...
by Phylicia | Apr 20, 2020 | Dating & Marriage
When I was single, I asked the guys I dated to call my dad once they wanted to make it “official”. Looking back on those years, I asked myself – did this standard really serve me well? The answer is an unwavering “Yes”. I would not do it...
by Phylicia | Dec 18, 2018 | Dating & Marriage, Sexuality
I recently shared an older post of mine – one I wrote shortly after I got married. It’s the story of why I waited until my wedding day to lose my virginity, and I why I did so with no regrets. Shortly after I received a comment: “I like this article,...
by Phylicia | Oct 3, 2017 | Christian Life & Theology
“I just didn’t think it was possible to stay pure after falling.” she said, fighting back tears. As a girl who had previously obliterated my own purity, I wondered the same thing myself. I was a new Christian faced with the mistakes I had made and...
by Phylicia | Jun 27, 2017 | Dating & Marriage
I decided to save my first kiss for my wedding day long before I started dating. Some will applaud this decision. Others will scoff and roll their eyes. Others will pity me for being a product of my conservative Christian upbringing. My conviction was shaped through...
