by Phylicia | Oct 12, 2020 | Relationships, Sexuality, Singleness
For many Christian girls, the boundaries in dating are fluid and ever-changing. How far you go depends on who you are with, and the standards of purity are, well, fifty shades of gray. We want a list of rules; that would be easiest. God doesn’t give us specific...
by Phylicia | Sep 28, 2020 | Singleness
In the midst of the battle to choose Christ over our human nature, the pat answer to “satisfy yourself in God” isn’t always welcome. How do we satisfy ourselves in God when – frankly – we’re still not satisfied? I always say,...
by Phylicia | Sep 21, 2020 | Christian Life, Sexuality
“Why would God give me these desires if He’s not going to fulfill them?” It’s a question many young men and women are asking. It’s a question I see at least once a week in my DMs, sometimes once a day. It’s a pressing concern for...
by Phylicia | May 5, 2020 | Christian Life, Sexuality
I sat in the overstuffed chair, staring at the screen but not really reading. Yet again. The internet will soon be rife with the comments of postulating people, believing and unbelieving. They will type in all-caps “I told you so” and “Pray for the...
by Phylicia | Oct 24, 2017 | Sexuality
I know where you are because I’m there, too. Dear girl, I see you. I see you scouring the internet for articles telling you that what you’re doing isn’t wrong, that you shouldn’t feel guilty, everyone does it, you’re fine. You’ve found plenty to support what you want...
