I am the Immodest Girl

I am the Immodest Girl

I wore this today because I’m insecure. I looked in the mirror and the mirror told me lies. But I believe them, because they’re all I’ve ever known: You’re not enough. You’re not attractive. You’re unloveable. I wore this today...
How to Let Go of the Guy You Grew Up With

How to Let Go of the Guy You Grew Up With

You know who I’m talking about. There are pictures of the two of you in diapers. Your moms have known each other for twenty-plus years. Or maybe you met through youth group in 9th grade and were inseparable until high school graduation. You were always...
Why We Need Sexual Discipleship

Why We Need Sexual Discipleship

As Christians, we know we need discipleship: continued instruction in the truth of our faith. But sexual discipleship? Most of you have probably never heard these terms in the same sentence – and I certainly hadn’t until last year. It was the year I...
The Day I Stopped Chasing Proverbs 31

The Day I Stopped Chasing Proverbs 31

Excellent. It’s who I wanted to be. Excellence – my goal in work, home, marriage, motherhood, friendship – in every circle of life I would be at the top. I would not just do good; I would be good. I would be good at everything. I sought new tasks and...